Your thoughts on fate?


What are your thoughts on fate and the concept of ‘what will be will be’? I find it makes me feel better but also think it is a bit of a cop out. Here are my models on a man…:

Old Model
C – I don’t hear from him anymore
T – He’s over me
F – Heartbreak, grief
A – mope, stalk him online
R – more heartbreak

New model:
C – I don’t hear from him anymore
T – What will be will be
F – peace, harmony
A – I can be in my life, not thinking about him constantly
R – achieve my own goals

Thanks so much.