How can I change or create the feeling in my intention model.

UM
C: client said in last session of coaching package “I feel like I just wasted all this time and money”.
T: I’m a fraud and a bad coach. She found me out.
F: ashamed
A: retreating and hiding
R: not getting new clients

IM
C: client said in last session of coaching package “I feel like I just wasted all this time and money”.
T: I can grow from this
F:
A: Improve my coaching skills
R: Learn from this

the F is blank on my IM because I can’t shift my feeling of shame