Hi amazing coaches,
Please help me out to know how to deal with my issue of feeling frustrated over thoughts about my husband when he lets our 6 year old son watch what I feel is inappropriate content on you tube.
C Husband shows you tube videos of prank videos, a kid crashing on a skate board, then a little kid kicking high and hits another boy in the face-husband laughs at both incidents.
T – This is too much and inappropriate. Why does he not think what is best for our child. This is not teaching anything good and is not funny.
F – Sad that he thinks it is ok content for our child. Angry that he doesn’t think more. upset that he always wants to be on the phone.
A – I tell him that I do not think it is good content and ask what he thinks (in soft kind voice).
R – Husband gets mad and says ” It was funny things before you came” I just can’t do anything right, can I. I feel hopeless.
I feel so much better with his certain behaviors and been working on models and if it ha to do with him and me I feel I better can deal with it. It is really hard when I feel it is something related to our son and I feel I want to do what is best for him. How can I just let it go and accept that husband do certain things that will not benefit our Childs growth? I don’t want our child to think it is fun or something to laugh about if others are hurt.