Communication problems

Hi, I have a hard time communicating with my husband. I know I got to accept that he does not want to change or get help and if that was just one thought and that’s it kind of thing, it be ok but this comes up every day. Our communication together is so hard and this is just one model. I don’t know what to do.

C Talking about same relationship issues over and over, yet never stays at one subject/problem until it gets solved.
T Communicating with husband is so hard. It is like talking to a child.
F Frustrated, sad, everything is directed towards him.
A I ask that we take a communication course together or read a book. He says no and gets upset.
R The communication does not improve.