Am I in control of getting pregnant next month? (part 2)


What if I take action from a place of believing I will get pregnant next month? I figure it doesn’t do me any good to believe I won’t get pregnant next month based on these models. There’s no upside to thinking I won’t get pregnant so maybe I could just take action believing I will get pregnant.

What do you think?

C goal to get pregnant next month
T I won’t get pregnant next month. The probability is so low.
F discouraged
A think negative thoughts about getting married and trying for kids later in life, beat self up for being overweight, have sex from a discouraged mind
R I decrease probability by adding a lot of stress and negativity to the process

C goal to get pregnant next month
T I believe I will get pregnant next month.
F excited
A think positive thoughts about future baby, stay in good mood from confidence, enjoy regular and extra sex
R I enjoy baby making process without stress which increases probability of pregnancy