Baby


What if my impossible goal is to have a baby? It’s measurable but at the same time totally out of my control due to infertility. Do I still use this as the goal and my “fails” are each month/adjusting plan with my doctor? My T helps me to keep going but it can’t change a diagnosis. So how can I focus on this?
Makes me wonder about other diagnoses-maybe it’s about HOW we live during the journey. But how is that measurable?