Compare and Despair


I was wondering if you could help me with something I was experiencing and I wanted to manage my brain around it.

I’m in another mastermind business group and I notice everyone is having these big wins and I haven’t had any big wins.  So I noticed my brain was bringing up thoughts like “oh I’m not successful, I’m not doing enough, what are they doing that I’m not, I’m not going to be as successful, why does this feel harder for me?”

But also I hear my brain saying “I’m making this about me, I’m happy for them, there is enough for everyone, there’s more action I could to do.”

But I don’t want to keep just taking actions without working on my thoughts too.  Thank you for your help.