Here we are, day 2, dare 2. 🙂
UM
C Plan to tell my manager that I don’t want to do travel bookings for her anymore
T She’s going to think less of me
F fear of being rejected
A being mad with myself for creating drama around this, chickening out on the dare
R not told her; continue to book travels for her;
neglecting myself, => I’m thinking less of me
IM
C Plan to tell my manager that I don’t want to do travel bookings for her anymore
T I’m telling her confidently that I don’t want to do it anymore
F self-confident
A select convincing reasons, word my request concisely, stay in touch with myself
R told her
Well, I did tell her. Though, I made this part of an email, stating that I need to have clear boundaries for my job. Pointing out areas where I feel I’m generous with the time I spent on it, as well as areas where I feel it’s none of my business (such as travel bookings). I think I chickened out a bit by choosing an email, thus postponing having to deal with her response. I do appreciate that I finished the email suggesting that we can discuss this in our upcoming meeting on Tuesday. Might be a chance for another dare.
What do you think?