Suzy coached me this morning around my resistance to the possibility of moving. She pointed out that claiming authority, being clear on the budget and structuring my thoughts around how I wanted to feel during this process of moving, remodeling, etc. would be most supportive. I did.

C: Circumstance: Moving
F: How do I want to feel during this process: Excited, happy, appreciative, creative, motivated, authority (empowered), control, decisive, clear, excited, excited, excited & oh, flexible.
T: Thoughts: I get to create the home of my dreams. I know how to do this. I’ve done this before. I know just the person that can help me vision & co-create. I can make this so much fun – an adventure. I can match Paul’s enthusiasm if not top it. I am so appreciative that we can afford to do this. I am so appreciative that Paul is willing to move now & has done all the coordinating, paperwork, etc. Wow! My husband rocks!
A: Actions: Consult w/ Jenny Speier. Talk to contractor. Find out what budget is. Prioritize. Work on selling our house. Work on my thoughts. Embrace all the feelings that surface. Work on my thoughts.
R: Result: Home of my dreams (if offer is accepted!)

I love this because even if our offer isn’t accepted, I have taken internal and external action steps to be prepared when we do move!

Much Love, Ginny