Hello, I’ve been kicking butt getting things done in some areas, but not in others.  Today I’m facing one I’m not kicking butt in.  I’m feeling overwhelmed and as if I’m doing everything wrong and going to get screwed by my spouse.  It’s in the legal realm and I’m not even sure I can get good legal advice.  I’ve had a super expensive lawyer who didn’t tell me lots of relevant things. Now I have a much cheaper one who might not be that great either, but at least isn’t draining my money.  I don’t feel I have good options.