Emotional Childhood

Hi Coach ,
Am I in emotional childhood if I think moving back to my hometown to be in close proximity to some family members and friends Emotional Childhood? I’ve not been crazy about this particular city for years but thought that I should give it time .

Is the advice from what Brooke teaches is for me to find things I like about this city and or enjoy it BEFORE I relocate back home ?
My understanding is I will have the same problem in the other location as I have now … if so , how do explain so many people traveling to be with friends or family over the holidays when it does make them feel better {{ The thoughts of being with family make them feel better }}

My gosh , I hope I was able to convey this with enough clarity.