Finding a partner

I’m doing a model on finding a partner (not necessarily marriage but I’d like a committed long term relationship).

My question is I want a lot of feelings in the F line. Is this counterproductive? I expect all of these feelings will propel me to the action I want. Or do I need a model for each one?

I’m loving how technical and precise this can be.

My intentional model is:

C Dating
T I can find and choose a man to love
F outgoing, patient, interested, excited, open, honest, fun
A Get to know a lot of different men and see what unfolds
R Partner

Thank you!!