New to scholars. Just wanted to share my first model and get your feedback. Not sure if I did it right, but WOW, really helped with feelings about work yesterday. I have my own business and am in the wedding industry. Yesterday was a VIP bride, I was having a great time, focused on finding FUN in my work (loving august scs) but was getting bad vibe from the planner (who I have worked with before and she’s kind of always like this)

C Every time I have a question and try to ask X (the planner) she completely ignores me so I have to go find one of her assistants to get info
T She looks down on me, she doesn’t respect me or my work, she is annoyed by me, maybe she is mad at me for ____ (I came up with like 5 ideas why she would be mad at me), I don’t like her, we don’t vibe
F critical (of her), hateful (towards her), unwelcome
A Avoid her
R Lack of connection, lack of future collaboration/ referrals

C Every time I have a question and try to ask X (the planner) she completely ignores me so I have to go find one of her assistants to get info
T This is a very important event for X and she’s focused on self-promo
F Compassion towards X, that she is in a place where she can’t acknowledge me/ be kind
A Be nice to X, work happily with assistants, send thank you note
R Get more weddings with X and feel good

In the moment I tried to just ignore it and have fun, but when I did the model was really when I stopped obsessing about it. I am ok with not knowing why she was ignoring me, it doesn’t really matter.