Forgiveness or not?

I have done some work on forgiving my mother in law, to where I don’t think about what she said or did in the past anymore.

I accept her for who she is and look for the good in her.

I still do not want to go to family parties when invited and do not want to visit her or have any kind of deep conversation with her.

So just wondering if I have truly forgiven her or not?

Should a person that forgives and loves someone be able to visit and go to parties and such?