So I used to not be able to stand my MIL or FIL. I have done a lot of thought work on this and now can be with them and enjoy time together with no negativity in my mind. With that said, I don’t see myself going to the place of wanting to create more time with them or developing a strong relationship. I am thinking you will respond with an, of course you can have whatever relationship you want with them! I don’t really want to have more with people that just aren’t my favorite. I could give you a list of reasons why, but that’s not important. SO, if I like my reasons for being where I’m at (actually impressed I got myself to this much of a happy place with them), is that enough?