Holiday greeting.

I have this friend I have known her for a year now I celebrate every occasion with her, sometimes I come up with ones only to celebrate and have fun. Now we have this holiday she didn’t even send a message to wish that I have a good day with the family. Maybe it’s not a big issue but it hurts so much especially because the people I didn’t expect to greet me sent me messages. The feeling is I didn’t like that the one I call friend and I consider her part of my family didn’t send me messages. I would like to know what to do , I really don’t feel comfortable when I’m with her.