I’m struggling with how to conceptualize activity vs action in the idea I’m working on this week, which is to create an exceptional marriage.
Some of the actions I’m taking are:
-hug, kiss, and smile every day and do it with an open, appreciative, loving energy
– touch my husband at least 3x/day
-Ask him about his day and give feedback
– Ask him how his screenplay is going at least 1x/week
– Tell him about my worries/concerns and ask for his advice/feedback (instead of shutting down)
– Stop criticizing him and his family completely
I’m not sure how I measure the result, other than the feeling that I have. I know I have no control over how he experiences my actions, so is “create an exceptional marriage” even an idea on par with what Brooke is talking about this month?