When my husband gets anxious about money, I notice that I do as well and then I avoid him because he’s uncomfortable.

This my unintentional model
C My husband says the stock market is so up and down
T When my husband gets anxious about money, I don’t want to be around him because it’s uncomfortable.
F Avoidant
A I avoid him, try to change his money beliefs, talk myself up internally about how I’m going to take care of everything
R I create more anxiety for myself and take his words on to myself to mean that we aren’t okay financially

I’d love help with an intentional model where I don’t make his words mean that we aren’t okay.