Ladder thoughts

When the thought we need to get the result we want is too far of a stretch does the ladder bought still need to create a different feeling, action, result than our original thought?

I want to have a home where everything has a place and a purpose and is lovely. I have two toddlers and can’t quite get to the thought that it’s totally doable. Here is my original model and ladder model.

C: goal of house of order
T: I don’t believe I can
F: doubt
A: inaction
R: disordered house

New model
C: same
T: It is possible that I can have a house of order
F: hope
A: inaction
R: disordered home

Is this still moving in the right direction? I’ve heard you’re podcast on hope and not sure if this is a step in the right direction or a lateral move.