In one of Brooke’s podcasts, she mentions to love your partner without any expectation. If our partner is not doing something whether it’s chores or making effort in a relationship in ways that are important to you, I do understand it’s our thoughts that create resentment not the action itself. However, if this is so, does this mean not having any standards for a relationship with a partner as we have no expectations of our partner at all? Isn’t our choice of partner – one with compatibility and chemistry – one of the most important life decisions?