My ex husband is seeing a therapist with his family of origin to deal with some past trauma. The therapist wants to talk with me as well which I agreed to do. I have had one conversation with her and some back and forth emails.

I was getting a weird vibe from her and then caught her in a lie. It was a silly lie where she claimed to have emailed us both and it’s too long to explain but I know for a fact that she lied to keep herself from looking unprofessional when she had, in fact, dropped the ball. It wasn’t a big deal but because she lied about it I don’t know if I can work with her.

Do I confront her? Do I just refuse to work with her? Do I ignore it and pretend it isn’t a big deal? My ex is a pathological liar so being lied to is very triggering for me. What to do? Thanks!