Just want some feedback on this model.

Unintentional model
C – When me and my partner has had a bad argument he will contact his ex to tell her about it.
T – He does this because he knows how much she hates and he wants someone who will support him and his case 100%.
F – Betrayed.
A – Withdraw from him.
R – Cold and non-loving relationship.

C – When me and my partner has had a bad argument he will contact his ex to tell her about it.
T – He is having a meltdown and the only way for him to be in control is for him to reinforce his current thinking.
F – Compassion.
A – Love giving.
R – A loving relationship.