Model feedback parenting

C: my daughter did not finish cleaning the table
T: she is being lazy
F: frustration
A: tell her that she needs to work harder
R: tension, night time chores are unposted

T: she is having a hard time focusing on the task
F: patience
A: work with her to try to make it more fun, use a calmer tone of voice
R: stronger relationship w/ my daughter

Having trouble with the IM. I am having trouble finding the right thought.