My husband blames me for everything.

I need your help. I can’t talk to my husband because he only cares about his job and when he is at home he pretends my 2 children and myself do nothing but to pay attention to him and please him. No life, no friends, nothing but to wait until he finally says: I am waiting for you, I told you that we can do what you want and the result is that he is always upset, and the kids and myself bored. If something is not correct according to him all the time the responsibility is mine even if he didn’t like the food in the restaurant or the movie in the cinema. I know I should be controlling myself but honestly I don´t know how. It’s exhausting. Thanks for the help in advance.