From a previous post:

Needs

“Where do needs fit into the model? We don’t talk about needs much other than it’s our job to meet them. It’s almost like they are in between the T and F line, no? Or in between the C and T line? I can see how our needs influence our thinking and feeling. Help me out please!

Answer:

Needs are a mental construct that are subjective in most models.

Breath, water, food, as required to live I would put in the C line.

All other needs would go into the T line.”

my question is then, what do you recommend in relationships:

is this it?

“I love you without condition, I need nothing from you”

or “I recognize that what I need from you is a choice”

I find this fascinating

what are the most helpful thoughts

thank you