Lets say someone stole money from my business.
– that person took money from my business that does not belong to him.
That would be a circumstance, right?
C-person stole money from my business
How about if someone made a promise to me to do something for me, and they broke their promise.
C-person broke their promise to me
Or
C- person lied to me
etc
unhelpful thoughts could be
T- this person betrayed me
F- angry, hurt, humiliated
A- recoil, reduce self-care
R-betray myself
but helpful Thoughts then could be
T- others would say this person betrayed me but I choose to believe they have problems of their own that have nothing to do with me
F-neutral
A-decide what to do (if anything)
R-Moving on, unaffected by others negative behavior
would like your thoughts on this