Relationships at 64

My husband and I have been married for 5 yrs. I am 64 and he is 67. We came from total opposite backgrounds. I was married for 28 yrs and divorced. My husband was married out of HS and his wife of 40 yrs died of cancer. Our married lives were totally different. My
ex-husband and I coached high level athletes, traveled separately and very independent of each other. My husband’s marriage, his wife was very dependent on him. They never traveled, his wife did everything in the house(reclusive) and raised one child. Just a little background!

His sex drive is way more than mine. He is very physically attracted to me from what he has told me he always dreamed of being with a petite woman. My sex drive is, well isn’t. I guess menopause kicked in a couple yrs ago, a little later than most. I am currently using some hormones to help with this.

He wants to make love, I don’t, then he says if I loved him I would want to show it that way. I feel bad then have sex, then feel glad he is happy. This most times creates the feelings of loneliness, resentment.

I would like help with the model.

Thank you!