so noticed how positive i think about my bf.
except for this:
he complains about the problem instead of fixing it –> ok, but this one i don’t find any compassion. i can see that he complains and that he gets stuck in his cycle. but good, just pull yourself together and do something. you are an adult. shut up and do it.

he doesn’t take my advice even if the problem could be fixed faster!!!!! -> here i also can find some compassion as i want him to take my advice for my sake so i will feel better because it upsets me when i have to listen to him. so i think he can sense that. and maybe he just doesn’t see where i come from or is not ready to take it. Or he’s just too lazy. Funny thing i rarely take his advice haha. and he’s annoyed with that too.

he gets angry when something doesn’t work the way he wants it to work –> so here i understand him. i can see that if it would work his life would be easier. i get that.

he complains about the problem instead of fixing it –> ok, but this one i don’t find any compassion. i can see that he complains and that he gets stuck in his cycle. but good, just pull yourself together and do something. you are an adult. shut up and do it.