Self Love

Hello! For as long as I can remember I have not loved myself. I have had the thought that loving myself is a bad thing and that I would be conceited if I did. I have been trying to prove to myself and others for so long that I don’t love myself. I now see that that is not serving me. This belief causes me to think that others don’t like me and I get upset with them when they don’t respond to a text or want to hang out. This belief is not serving me. I want to love myself. I want to think that I am amazing and that people are missing out when they aren’t hanging out with me. I want to love them anyway and not make it mean anything if they don’t respond to a text. Whare do I begin to start loving myself? What daily actions can I take to move in this direction and love myself unconditionally? Thank you so much for your help!