Struggle Affecting Husband

Every time I am in struggle my husband suffers. He comes to me and says he feels disconnected. What can I do about this? It makes me feel like I cannot even attempt to figure my things out because the impact on him is so great. I don’t want my struggle to be so hard for him but I also know that I have no control over his feelings. I want to know how to be a loving wife toward him even when I am in struggle so he doesn’t have to suffer so much.