Thank you for the clarification on my life’s purpose. Making my family my purpose is still my priority, but you helped me see that being remembered as a loving and generous wife, grandmother, mother etc. is out of my control. So my one sentence statement is to be a loving wife, grandmother, mother, friend, sister and to be loving to my extended family. That I know was under my control, and how I will be remembered is up to each individual in my family. Still have the niggling feeling that my purpose should be more complicated than that. But making stop over drinking my life’s purpose seems shallow compared to the above. Over drinking feels more like a goal, than a purpose. DMc