The 5 love languages and meeting our own needs

Brooke talks about meeting our own needs and coming together and just loving and having a good time. My marriage counselor talks about the 5 love languages. Mine is acts of service. Now with this love language, I can See how I can meet that need For myself. But my husbands is physical touch. That’s a need only a wife can fulfill and when I’m not meeting this need he feels unloved. Just curious your comments around that.