My boyfriend it’s not acting according to my ‘Manual’. I did a lot of work concerning this, so I have more power in my relationship.

I am currently working on the next model and I would like some help with it.
UT
C-my rel with my bf
T- I think he doesn’t want to be with me anymore
F – angry/ frustrated
A- very analytical with everyhting he does, criticizing him
R- he might not want to be with me anymore

IT
I wanna work on my thought ‘he doesn’t wanna be with me anymore’ , because I wanna leave the relationship as a winner, from strength and not as a victim, I am aware I am not a victim. Basically I would like to have in my R-line : I don’t want to think anymore that he doesn’t wanna be with me anymore.
I am a little stuck in changing this thought.

Thank you,
Corina.