Unconditional Love

I feel like my husband loves me unconditionally. I want to return the favor to him.

We don’t have sex due to erectile dysfunction and it frustrates me. I try to always get him to have sex.

How can I unconditionally love him? In my mind, I’m not because I want to change the relationship around having sex.

Can I still unconditionally love him if I want to make him have sex?

How do I stop wanting to make him have sex so that I can unconditionally love him?