thanks so much for the reply!
ok, i see what you are saying with the weight loss. and i totally agree!

but somehow with love and relationships it seems to be something different in my mind.
like how do you explain someone being in a relationship and than breaking up and right after they find the “right person”.
and if you now say, they have other thoughts. NOT INTENTIONALY changed them. like we do with models.
that is kinda a new person thing. So she’s having other thoughts because of the new partner.

OR

do you think every relationship will be the same until you decide to change your thought pattern?

which one is it?
thank you so much for you answer!

need to sort this one out.

hugs