A close friend came over the other night. She got really mad and made some truly outlandish and furious accusations based on nothing at all. The things she said were so bizarre and illogical (it reminded me of Brooke’s thing about someone screaming at you for having blue hair when you don’t have blue hair) that it SEEMS as if it shouldn’t bother me. And I know for a fact that nothing she said resonated at all, so it’s not that.

C: Friend says words
T: A person this unhinged is untrustworthy
F: Wariness
A: Avoid her from now on
R: Not her friend

I could probably do work on these models and struggle to come to a more neutral place, but when do you know if you’ve done enough work and should just leave your model as-is?