When is the A line in the context of the circumstance, when is it not.

Just started driving out of the house, my 3 yr old doing potty training was doing a poo. He has nappy on, so really no big deal except he will need to sit on dirty nappy for 30 mins.

C 3 yr old did a poo
T I can never get things right
F useless
A I am not very consistent with potty training, I don’t buy the most expensive nappy sometimes they work, sometimes I have to return them. (Now is this outside the context: I am consistent with food that kids eat, sometimes healthy sometimes not. The same inconsistency with toothbrushing)
R I am not doing things “right” – I know “right” is my own standard

Thank you