Wishing he was different

I was wondering if I could get some feedback on a model on my dad and how I think he should be different than he is.

C- Dad
T- He should be less critical and sarcastic.
F- Frustrated
A- Be on the defense when he calls, Be really short with him

I wasn’t sure if I put the items in the correct spots. I want my dad to be less critical and sarcastic because then I wouldn’t feel so hurt and frustrated by what he says. I know the result is something along the lines of me showing up as critical and sarcastic right? Thanks!