I was reading one of your answers from a question asked earlier this month, and you stated: “Choose what weight you want to be, just because you want it, and then own that choice.” … Okay, call me crazy, but I’ve made decisions so complicated in my brain, like that I have to choose something for an altruistic reason, or so it’s good for my future, or because my family likes it that way, or because that’s always how I’ve done it, or that’s what I “should” do … you get the picture.

So you’re saying I can simply choose something just because “I want it”?? And have no drama around that? And not explain that further to anyone? Mind. Blown.