20 year marriage

My 20 year marriage is in trouble. I haven’t been happy for a few years and despite my husband and I committing to change things, things stay the same.

The unhappiness is coming from me, I see that, but I don’t know where to begin. I want to love my husband more, and I want to want to be intimate with him but I don’t feel capable right now.

I sometimes think I’m giving up too easily and should work harder at making things work. I don’t want to leave but I don’t want to stay feeling as I do.

Are there any resources in the vault that address this issue?

Can you also coach me on this?