I finally figured out the root of my problem with self confidence. I started to list my accomplishments and they are all just average. I feel I have never really done anything great. Besides raise my 3 daughters. Everything else is just in the normal range. I tried to be a really good golfer and I only achieved that very few times. I dedicated 10 years to the sport and only shot mostly scores in the mid 80s to the low 90’s. BTW I only think I am good when I play well. The world is full of average people so I guess that’s ok!!