My relationship is one of my big goals for 2017. I’d love you to review this model:

C – My husband has an alcohol problem
T – My life is going to get ruined, I’m going to have to leave him one day
F – anxiety, sadness
A – try to stop him drinking
R – we fight, driving him away, he often ends up drinking more

C – My husband has an alcohol problem
T – I love my husband
F – peace, happiness
A – focus on my goals and life, enjoy time with him when he’s not drinking so much
R – less/no fighting, sometimes less drinking from him, my life is full of lots of different things, not just my relationship

Thanks!