Hello,
I am separated, getting divorced. I would tell myself the T that the C is my husband is being a jerk in that he is trying to make everything as hard for me as possible.
Today I picked up my daughter just after 5pm and he asked if I was bringing my younger daughter to soccer at the same time as my older daughter at a different location across town. He had her dressed in soccer shorts and shin guards with plastic shoes on.
This is just another thing on top of so many others. He seems to want to make things difficult for me, even if it makes things worse for my girls.
I don’t know how to deal with him.