Can I blow my own mind?

Very excited to be diving into the March work! I am totally starting to talk like you in my mind e.g. ‘Get it mama!’ and ‘Blow your own mind’ 🙂
So my goal this year is to have an amazing marriage. My husband and I have had some issues and I am dealing with my thoughts about his drinking (with help from Rachel!).
An amazing marriage doesn’t seem like a ‘blow my own mind’ goal to me right now. It is definitely going to take work to think like that all the time but it’s not out of reach to me. Should I aim higher and/or how can I with this particular goal?