Discovering a stubborn money belief

Brooke! I’m just watching your money video and did the exercise in the first part that identifies your money beliefs. Mine are:
I won’t ever make lots of money
Men make lots of money
You can only make money if you work long hours and put up with stress (unless you’re in a job with high commission which is never going to be me as I don’t have the expertise for that)

The last one I struggle with a lot. It’s a deeply held belief. And there are conflicting teachings around this. All the entrepreneaurs in their podcasts boast about how much hustling and grinding they did. But then Abraham Hicks says just align with it and it will flow.
What’s your take on this and how to change the thought into a believable one that will serve me?