Are these type of thoughts okay to think as bridge thoughts..
I am going to learn from my failures
I am going to take care of myself
I am going to treat myself with respect
I am going to use xyz as an opportunity to start showing love to myself

When I am saying them to myself to see if they fit …they are generating more positive feelings and actions in the moment…but wasn’t sure if they are okay as they are sound as if it is something I will do way off in the future, but I am using them to apply to myself in the moment and when certain circumstances arise to enable a more positive perception..

Hope that makes sense, and thanks so much for any help and guidance