Unintentional model
C: Daughter stayed out longer with friend
T: She should come home earlier to be with us
F:  annoyed
A:  say something to her in annoyed tone and facial expression, judge, ruminate
R: ?

Intentional Model
C: Daughter stayed out longer with friend
T: It’s understandable she wants to stay out longer with her friend
F: Understanding
A: relax, go about my day, talk to her normal when she gets home about her fun time with friend
R: ?