I feel like I’m missing something with this model. Can you help? In my UM, I feel like the R and T are connected, but not sure if it’s actually right. Same with the IM.

UM
C Talked to mom on the phone
T She doesn’t show up for me emotionally
F rejected
A cry, distracted at work, withdraw, lay on couch and don’t use coaching tools
R Don’t show up for myself emotionally

IM
C Talked to Mom on the phone
T She’s not in a healthy mental space to attend to my emotional needs right now.
F Compassion
A See how I can support her emotional needs, be patient, find support for myself elsewhere
R I’m able to give to my Mom rather than receive from her.