How to think abundance

We offered to take our son, daughter in law and 2 1/2 year old granddaughter to Disneyworld. We have a vacation club resort that we can stay at for free that is closer than some hotels on the Disney property. So the trip with tickets, food, airfare etc is around $5000. They really want to stay on the Disney property which would bump up the total to close to $10,000. We don’t think the extra cost is worth the benefits. The questions isn’t about what we should do. I do wish that money were no object for me that we can do whatever type of vacation we choose. How do I think abundance around this? If I had millions what would I think? Can you give me some of those thoughts?