My husband is a good man but maybe due to undealt with things from the past, when he parties, he takes it too far. When I call it a night at 10.30 pm he and his friends stay drinking. And then the music gets louder and then I can’t sleep.
I’m trying to see where is my manual and where are my boundaries.
I set a boundary for myself by having fun but then caring about my health and routine and the next day etc. I don’t impose my manual on him. I let him stay up.
But how do I stop his partying from affecting me – ie them playing loud music, or even if I cut the electricity they would still talk and laugh loudly.
I don’t want to get our children up out of bed and go sleep at another house/hotel.